Ok, maybe that saying is a little out there, "The problem is not the problem; the problem is your attitude about the problem."
But honestly, most things in life are only has hard we think they are. They are only as painful as we believe they will be.
I like to come from the approach, to borrow a phrase from business coach, Marie Forleo, "Everything is figure out-able". A solution is better than no solution, even if it's not perfect....yet. A small step is always better than never stepping out there at all.
Today, be brave enough to, at least, take a itsy bitsy baby step and then see where you stand!