3 Videos you shouldn’t miss on relationships and love

tumblr_m2zpn62ETo1r4qf24o1_500Relationships and love are often tricky and can get complicated real quick, here are some videos about love and relationships to help keep things steady and healthy!

 

I normally don’t like couple’s or relationship programs that teach audiences that they never knew how to talk to their partners or spouses.  We all know. We all know how to talk to the people we love. But sometimes things get muddled, sometimes we aren’t clear.  I found this video insightful, not because it’s another video trying to teach women how to speak to men. But rather because this author comes from an energetically holistic perspective and he speak to talking to your loved ones, from what you already know they do, think, and feel. Here’s a couple tips to get your guy more connected to you by Cracking the Man Code!

Here’s a sweet take on active listening by one my fav REAL gal’s, Marie Forleo.

Not everyone exudes charisma and excitement, it’s the message that is important. This couple knows what they are talking about when it comes to love, and that has great impact. Healing for and through love is one of the most important choices we can make for ourselves, he’s what Shannon and Scott Peck, from the Love Center, have to say about healing hurt, past or present, through love!

I hope you got something out of these videos, I know I did. No one is always an expert in love. We all get hung up sometimes, we all get hurt sometimes. But what matters in the end is how we get back to choosing love! If you find a video, article, or other nifty resource about relationships, submit to me! If you it helped you, it might be able to help someone else!

Tools and tips for staying in the state of Radiance

This week’s power-ups are going to take a in depth look at radiance, the foundation of your power and desire machine, your positive energy practices! But filling up your power and guidance core is more than just filling your life with self-help tools or techniques for relaxation and meditation. It’s about making time in your day to check in with yourself to see where you are and where you want to be.

We’ve been talking about Radiance, we have naturally also been talking about energy and the law of attraction. Today’s post has some tools and tips to understanding, getting to, and maintaining that state of radiance in your life.

Here’s a little video (a little over 8 minutes) all about the whole concept, in case you need a bit of a primer on the whole concept:

 

While I do think that meditations alone or affirmations won’t keep you in a state of radiance, your chakras are natural points for radiance in your body and energy systems. It would be remiss of me not to point out that working with your chakra during an exploration of your desires, radiance, and power would be helpful.  After following along with this visual and audio meditation ask yourself: What do I desire to give the world? What do I want for myself and my family and friends? What will allow me realize my wholeness and oneness?

 

Once you know what you have to do to fill up your system, you have to consider maintenance!

Take a look at this article for how to maintain and clean our your power and guidance core, your SSP fuel system!

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Your power and guidance core, The Super Secret Powers Fueling system

 

If you want to commit to a radiant life, to shine forth your light into the world, I would love to help you on your journey! Book an Intuitive life coaching session to make that commitment to yourself!

 

 

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Be truly positive, not fake positive…it’s not what you think!

farfallaThis week’s power-ups are going to take a in depth look at radiance, the foundation of your power and desire machine, your positive energy practices! But filling up your power and guidance core is more than just filling your life with self-help tools or techniques for relaxation and meditation. It’s about making time in your day to check in with yourself to see where you are and where you want to be.

But it is about faking it until you make it?  Hell, no!!

Okay, a fake positive person is someone who is struggling hard to fake it till they make it to the land of happy, all positive feelings. They are secretly threatened by other people’s happiness, no matter the face or act they put on to the outside world. They are secretly self-loathing and desperately trying to “fix” what is wrong with them with affirmations, meditations, and self-help.

 

But God doesn’t make junk, as my mom told me. The Divine didn’t make half formed, broken people. The Divine made souls, gorgeous, beautiful souls of light and energy and power and love. We cannot fully see this in our imperfect mortal world and shell. We think we are our bodies or our minds, or our emotions. But we are that spark, driving force behind the biological mechanisms. We are our souls, which have for this moment in time, been melding into a physical form. And we long, we ache for what we remember of that Divine presence from which we came, because we believe that by being here on this plane, we are somehow separated from it. But we aren’t. We are the hands and hearts of the Divine in this here and now. We are, by and large, the presence of the Divine on Earth.

 

1484646_665108433556610_6663025174905411226_nBeing positive isn’t about platitudes, it’s about how you feel deep down inside and allowing that to radiate out. It’s about attempting to know a part of that Divine self that we all have. It’s about finding our power, whether it the power of love, the power of transformation, or the power of honesty (or any other power) in order to keep our relationships untangled and to continue to grow…to evolve. It’s about following our deep and truest desires and feelings for ourselves, our families, our communities, our world, because they are messages from the Divine to ourselves and the world.

 

Affirmations are just saying or truths we repeat to make ourselves believe something. They are prayers, they are spells, they are intentions we raise up, empower, and send out into the universe. Without our feelings and emotions; They become fruitless words, hard self-recriminations. Without dancing with, building a relationship with, or living with those messy, confusing, and sometimes torturous feelings and desires, we begin cause ourselves undue pain and suffering. You need to build up the positive within you, you need to feed those positive power cells to have a reserve, flex those positive emotional muscles to build up some muscle memory. You need to build a positive emotional practice to help sustain your center in your Divine desirous radiating state of being.

 

Get in touch with it, review this month’s material, as you are most likely experiencing low self esteem or confidence about something.

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And then start build your power and guidance core.

 

self-loveSome tips for building your power and guidance core:

 

  • Be holistic: We’re looking for positive things for your mind, body, emotions, AND soul/energy. What makes you feel centered in your life, what makes you feel powerful?
  • Be creatively practical: our daily routine can easily become humdrum and stale, which mean our energy will stagnate. Energy may be “frozen” into a form, but it’s always moving, vibrating, and cycling. Leave room in your routines to spice things up a bit, put a new twist on things. Plan for those changes to keep it fresh. Make an entry in your calendar every two or three weeks to review your routines and get in touch with how you want to feel and see where you can make some tune-ups to how you rock your groove.
  • Don’t be deluded into trying big changes over a short amount of time. Plan for small changes over a longer period of time. Play with your options and pay attention to the results in how you feel. Shoot for 5% better each goal period.
  • Every evening ask yourself if you loved enough, laughed enough, and made a difference that day, and adjust as needed.
  • Every morning ask yourself how you feel AND want to feel that day, and aim for how you want to feel.
  • Take a mid-day breather and check in with yourself, how are you feeling and what would make the day for you if you could tap into that feeling?

 

Building up your ability to radiate should be a process that feels amazing, keep that your focus. But if you are struggling with any of this material and need more guidance, some brainstorming, or even a push, then book an Intuitive life coaching session, which is free for a limited time, so we can talk about it!

I believe in you!

I believe in the radiance of your soul and energy!

 

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If radiance isn’t your goal, this is why you need to rethink everything!

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I’m going to tell you a story, it’s my story. But really it could be anyone’s story, it could be your story. In a lot of respects, I always had a powerful life. It had ups and downs, I had ups and downs. I had dreams, wishes , and wants. They ranged from a good life for my kids, to taking a vacation, deepening my spirituality, and the big wish to have a lot more time and a lot more money. I was living the life that was there around me, only really thinking of the basics. And, like your life, there were blessings and graces in that. There were struggles too. But it wasn’t until the very foundations of the life I built was shaken, that I understood the true essence of personal power and desire. I understood I was a slave to my emotions or circumstance. I understood that every moment I was breathing I still had the power to choose what I was putting out into the world. And that choice had power and resonance. But in order to keep choosing those things which had power and resonance I needed to start meeting my needs and desires on a whole other level than basic living.

 

The more I thought and wrote about personal power, the more I came realize that it is soo easy to stay under-powered in life, to not make the harder, deeper choices, because we already are used to living on a low-powered lifestyle. I realized that while meeting my basic needs, do a little planning, a little budgeting, and so forth, could fill a lifetime with good things.  But I still needed something more, something more powerful, more meaningful. I realized that positive thinking and self-help systems created by others would never sustain the potential I saw within myself. I couldn’t get where I wanted to go, felt guided to go, if I didn’t find the Will to do it.

 

We all have power and we all have desires, it’s universal. We all want things for ourselves, and we all need to be affect our world and lives in some way. But living from our place of power and desire, shifts the way we think, it shifts our energy and radiance. It shifts our lives and how think about living. We transcend “getting by”, and start carrying an energy and radiance about us that resonates with the Divine, with the universe, with Creation. Through building and maintaining our power and desire we feel:

 

Radiance

Resonance

Light

Clarity

Motivation

 

 

A life full of :

Love

Power

Passionate

Joy

Blessing

Inspiration

Succulence

Brilliance

Spiritual and emotional evolution

Transcendence

 

It all comes down to Energy

Yet the words power and desire can be big trigger words for a less than stellar reaction or at least really negative words. But for me it all comes down to energy. Everything in this world, and I think the next, is comprised of energy. Even our bodies, rocks, and houses, solid things, are made if energy. I’ve seen scientists call solid matter “frozen” energy, to emphasize the point that the world around is constantly moving, vibrating, and cycling around.

 

auric-clearing-auric-attachmentsEnergy is holistic and holographic (3d in a sense) because our every part of our bodies and lives run off of energy in some way. We feed our bodies food, so our bodies can convert the good to energy and nutrients to fuel that can be converted to other types of life needed energies. Our eyes convert light into the things we think we see and experience. Our ears convert sound waves, a form of energy, into sounds we can understand and find meaning in. When we think or remember things, we send electricity through portions of our brain to stimulate the brain cells into action. We spend the majority of our time converting, processing, interacting with, and working with energy.

 

Even what we think and feel is all about energy. Our emotions and mind even use energy. Everything about our experience of emotions, from the release of hormones and endorphins to how our energy responds to feeling states, effects our experience of energy. Emotions and desires are so strong within us, so integral to how we view and experience the world, right down the energetic level, that it makes complete sense that we should be living from our emotions. All of our goals, life visions, life mission realizations need to be checked again the barometer of desires and emotions before we implement them. If we don’t tap those emotions as a form of guidance and discernment, we could easily end up living in that low-power state that I was talking about before. And we need to have our emotional and desire gauge well-calibrated by building a system for ourselves of positive energy practices based on your core desires and emotions we want to radiate out into the world. I call these Rites of Being. We need to be able to hold those energetic emotionally desirous states within us, so we can compare reality, our plans to it, our actions to those high energy states. We need to build our own core power and guidance system.

 

Building a process which continually feeds and calibrates our souls to our Divine intentions and high vibe feelings should be the first goal we all address before building any other plans for our lives.  I call these processes Rites of Being. We need to continually find small and large ways to tune ourselves back to our desired emotional Energy Keys, our family, our community, and our world. This is is more than just filling your life with self-help tools or techniques for relaxation and meditation. It’s about making time in your day to check in with yourself to see where you are and where you want to be. It’s about learning to recognize the things which drain you and building up a skill set and series of Rites of Being that will allow you disengage or protect your energy. It’s about being very clear on what you feel, think, and desire, and intentionally building up your power core to support you getting to those feelings, thoughts, and desire on a consistent basis.

 

Take a few minutes and think about it! What makes your soul stir? What makes you feel powerful love? What makes you feel like you are living up to the life you were meant to live? What kinds of actions make your heart feel full?

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Want to delve deeper into fine tuning your Rites of Being and crafting the life you have always dreamed about, get a copy of Dreamcasting today!

 

 

The problem with how we see Desire – video/podcast

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This power-up is all about the DESIRE. Desire isn’t only about sex and romance. Desire is about wanting, longing, aching for something. It contains the seeds for life purpose, our Super Secret Powers. Desire is one of the powers of Love, potent, exhilarating, and always heart-felt. But it can consume us, if we let it. It can be innocent, but it can also be wild. What is your relationship to your deep, soulful, intense desires?

 

This  video will tell you what the problem is with how we see Desire and how we can begin to plan for a powerful desire-filled life

Or you can listen to the podcast!

When your ready to follow your desires, book an Intuitive Life Coaching Session to create the life you long for!

 

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A quick guide to bringing desire into your life

dodinsky 6 (2)This power-up is all about the DESIRE. Desire isn’t only about sex and romance. Desire is about wanting, longing, aching for something. It contains the seeds for life purpose, our Super Secret Powers. Desire is one of the powers of Love, potent, exhilarating, and always heart-felt. But it can consume us, if we let it. It can be innocent, but it can also be wild. What is your relationship to your deep, soulful, intense desires?

Let’s translate some of those desires into some real goal or intentions for your life.  Remember all goals, plans, steps, life visions, and action plans should be based on your core desires. They are the foundation of your super-hero self, they will lead you to your Super Secret Powers!  This plan should focus not only on uncovering your desires, but also how to you can move in alignment with your desires and how to maintain a powerful and desirous life.  Remember to include back up plans for when things go wry.

What is a little different about approaching planning from this level of self is that, wants and desires can be fluid, they can change. So this type of planning and life attuning or aligning should be done with some frequency, like every 6 months or every year!

Take a look at the worksheet and this week’s video, as they both offer a lot of ideas and resources that can help you start a plan to live life from your desires.

Take your core desires from the worksheet and your intentions and fill out this interactive tool with your responses!  Once you are done, hit submit! A copy of your plans and details will be sent to your inbox!

 

You can also download the action plan work sheets, and if you need help filling them out or making your life-changing goals, book an Intuitive Life Coaching Session!  Download your worksheet packets here!

 

 

Tools and tips for tapping Desire

rumi133528 (1)This power-up is all about the DESIRE. Desire isn’t only about sex and romance. Desire is about wanting, longing, aching for something. It contains the seeds for life purpose, our Super Secret Powers. Desire is one of the powers of Love, potent, exhilarating, and always heart-felt. But it can consume us, if we let it. It can be innocent, but it can also be wild. What is your relationship to your deep, soulful, intense desires?

Today we’re looking at some tools and tips for getting in touch with your Desire and for maintaining a healthy relationship with your desires through tools for your super secret hero tool/utility belt!

Here is one of my ultimate desire tapping into songs, that I always turn to! Lord knows how Bono, just knows how to hit that chord in me!

 

 

I do not live in a bubble. My ideas and feelings and coaching work is inspired by  A LOT of things and people and books and songs and life moments.  Right now one of inspirations is Danielle LaPorte because she is insanely HOT! And I’m not talking about her appearance! She tells the white hot truth in her books Desire Mapping and The Fire Starter Sessions. My Desire worksheet, which is below this video, can be used along with this video! While a lot of my work incorporates her work, because when it comes to it, it’s the truth and I don’t’ mind repeating it over and over until the whole world gets it, you can check out her work on your own here:

 

And as promised, here is a new worksheet for discovering your Desires. Take as much time with this worksheet to get it right, so it feels good, feels powerful, feels like it resonates with you right down to your toes!

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If you need help with this work, book an intuitive coaching session with Master Intuitive Coach Lindsay today!

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